Wednesday 28 December 2016

My Journey 


How long has it been since I've sat down and actually wrote a blog...
Forever!!!

When I found out I was pregnant I didn't have the focus to sit down and blog, and if I'm been completely honest I do think alot of people don't read blogs they like the more visible stuff like photos, snapchat etc....

Any ways this blog is purely on my journey to given birth to my absolutely gorgeous little gift Adalynn...

Every one kept saying oh you won't go over you will have that baby before your due date which was 18/12/16
Funny enough I did go over even after getting the sweep at 38 weeks I lost my mucus plug and a few mild contractions even the doctor sad your cervix is favourable.

39 weeks I had another sweep and doctor said I'll give you 24hrs but yet again noting my baby's head was down she was just to lazy lol....

40 weeks and 3 days over another sweep the doc said your 3cm how haven't you gone into labour, 
This baby was just totally cosy and why wouldn't she be...

I was brought in at 8 o'clock on the 23/12/16 to think the ball would be rolling soon, my waters just needed to be broke nd off I should pop, 
After waiting from 10 o'clock in a ward where other mothers just given birth just been left there not even in labour myself I was totally annoyed I just wanted to go home as I have my other little girl at home and it's the day before Xmas eve...


I told the nurse "I'm going home I've been left here all day no one has come near me to explain what's going on" don't get me wrong emergency cases come true those doors all the time and these have to be seen first but all I wanted was someone to let me no what was going on and give me a time roughly.

So the doctor came down and told me they will get you around 8 o'clock and they did, so I made my way upto the labour ward got into my nitey, made myself comfortable, chatted to a doctor who was just about to finish up for abit and then my midwife to deliver my little girl started her shift...
We chatted for awhile and then she broke my waters, where I absolutely soaked her she had to go change her pants and all, totally sorry, I was then put on the drip to start my contractions, at the start I could barely feel them even laughing at one point as we all chatted in the room....I was using the ball to get things rolling it really was such a chilled out atmosphere 

I told myself I wasn't getting any pain relief as I got it on morgan and felt it didn't work and was bed bound for 6hrs, so when the contractions started to get intense just near enough to half 10, the pain was absolutely died in really didn't think I could do it, all I remember was saying I don't think I can I don't think I can lol....but all of a sudden I needed to push it all happened so fast the midwife was like she is so close by this point I was like I think I need pain killers lol....no you don't you can do it she is so close, I'm so happy I didn't get anything after about 10 mins pushing out she popped in Felt every bit of her even though she was tiny only 6.9....

At 11.17 baby Adalynn was born just under an hour I couldn't belive it...
She was here my little gift I've prayed for so long...
My midwife what can I say she was absolutely outstanding a pleasure to be around to the other midwife who covered her brake you just made me laugh...I had the most amazing experience over in the labour ward I'm couldn't fault the two women I'm had, thank you.


I was left home just after half one the following day just in time for Xmas eve to spend with my morgan and adalynn.
What an amazing gift it truly has been the best Christmas of my life I feel so much love to be a mother to two beautiful girls...

Christmas eve we baked cookies and little the fire and just enjoyed our self's it was truly amazing...

Wow what a long post....hope you enjoy reading so sorry so long....typical women we get carried away.

So I can't truly wait to get back to outfit post but my blog will change it will be about me my life and fashion...I don't blog for anything but myself cause I enjoy it 

I hope ye can follow me on my next journey on how to jungle life of a mum of two (have to get used to that) and all other bits of my life

Thanks for reading 
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